Breaking news: Shock!!! kody carries aurora into the bedroom đ± is he her father anymore
Auroraâs panic attacks
In Sister Wives Season 14 Episode 10, âA Breaking Point,â Robyn and Kody tell their five children â Dayton, Aurora, Breanna, Solomon, and Ariella â that they will have to move out of their rental in Flagstaff, Arizona and find a new house. The news becomes too much for Aurora she starts having a panic attack.
Dayton, who was 19 years old at the time, questions his sisterâs panic attack regarding moving houses. âIs it really that bad?â Robyn goes to a crying Aurora and comforts her.
Aurora begins spasming and twitching, which Robyn tells the cameras is the âfirst signsâ of a panic attack is starting. âAuroraâs panic attacks sometimes are triggered by stress,â Robyn tells the cameras. âIt stresses Aurora out when the two of us are not like totally in love and harmonious,â Kody tells Robyn in their interview.
Kody caries Aurora up to her room
In the interview, Robyn cries, saying, âWe just need to get her out of this room. We need to get her to her bedroom.â She says that when Aurora is in the middle of a panic attack, âshe canât talk, and she canât walk.â
Kody picks 17-year-old Aurora up in his arms and carries her upstairs to her bedroom. While in the room, Robyn and Kody comfort her. Kodyâs heard whispering, âItâs always OK. Look at my eyes. Iâm right here.â
Kody says that he and Robyn are Auroraâs âsafe place,â and it triggers a panic attack if theyâre fighting. Robyn blames herself for the stress she caused her daughter. âWhen it happens, itâs heartbreaking and hard, and I feel like I did this to her somehow,â Robyn says.
Aurora explained that she has these anxiety attacks around âfour to five times a weekâ and are triggered by being âemotionally or physically exhaustedâ or when sheâs in a âhigh-stress situation.â
Kody is shocked by how intense Auroraâs panic attacks have become. âTo me, this is the worst Iâve ever seen,â he tells the cameras. âWeâre seeing a doctor about it,â he says.
Robyn thinks Auroraâs anxiety comes from seeing a âdisruption in our family culture,â meaning the wives have all separated in four houses and have begun to live their separate lives. âShe misses Kody. She misses the family,â Robyn says about Aurora.
Kodyâs codependent relationships with Robynâs children
For many Sister Wives fans, the fact that Robyn and Kody allowed cameras to film Auroraâs anxiety/panic attack seemed strange. Robyn tweeted after the episode aired that Aurora gave her full permission to air the panic attack on national television, saying she wanted to spread awareness to others struggling with the same issue.
The majority of fans felt that instead of catering to Auroraâs nearly daily panic attacks, Robyn and Kody should be getting her medical and psychological help to learn healthy coping mechanisms instead.
As for Kody carrying Aurora to her bedroom, some fans believe this was proof of how codependent their relationship is. âI guess with Kodys need to be worshipped & Auroras need to feel secure/attention puts them in a codependent relationship,â one fan wrote via Reddit.
In the Dec. 4 episode of Sister Wives, Kody proved how strangely codependent he is with Robynâs children. When everyone at Robynâs house had coronavirus (COVID-19), 22-year-old Aurora quarantined away from the rest of the family in the basement. Kody remembered after 10-days of separation, him and Aurora were sobbing that they couldnât see each other.
Kody is estranged from most of his other children
It bothered many fans that Kody has no problem rushing to Auroraâs side when sheâs having a panic attack, but when Christine Brownâs daughter, Ysabel Brown, needed her dad to be by her side during a serious spine surgery to correct her scoliosis, he wasnât there. Kody didnât make an effort to be there for Ysabel during the surgery or during the months of painful recovery.
Kody said he couldnât travel to be there for Ysabel because he doesnât want to be away from 10-year-old Solomon and 5-year-old Ariella for more than two to three days at a time. This caused Kody and Ysabelâs father-daughter relationship to fracture and since, has never been the same. Sister Wives fans struggle to understand why Kody is capable of being there for Robynâs children, but not his other kids.
With Kody having broken relationships with most of his children he shares with his other wives, fans canât help but feel like he favors Robynâs children.